I spent a good deal of time this evening talking to my family about the common phrase these days “It is what it is.” People in my family had differing views about both what the phrase means and whether they like it.
I used to dislike the phrase “It is what it is.” If you don’t like it, I feel you.
However, upon reflecting on what it actually means, I’ve become fond of it. It’s a bit Stoic, if you think about it.
In essence, one is saying that there are circumstances that one may feel one way or another about, but, well, it is what it is. You live and accept those circumstances and, in a way, are indifferent to them.
This phrase, which I confess to have been using a bit recently, reflects my current philosophy in life, which I take to be pretty much modern Stoicism.
So add the phrase “It is what it is” to your daily Stoic philosophy quotes.